THE CAUSE OF SUICIDE / read here!
Why would someone Suicide? That's definitely a question needing an answer!
It's a 'WHY' looking for a 'BECAUSE that would introduce a 'REASON'. And of course if the answer is 'Reason' based, we will be refering to a 'Belief'' the person holds. Beliefs are always constructed of Reasoning! So, what does a person 'believe' for reasons, and would make a person suicidal?
Yep, it all comes down to 'beliefs', not the circumstances the person is involved in, but rather the person's beliefs about the effect of circumstances, the effect upon their personal value.
It is also not about Emotions either, though do understand that Emotions are 'belief system' innitiated healthy physiological responses, that do serve a purpose, but are not the part of the 'belief system' that innitiates psychosomatic illness, nor the way a person acts. and that is why the various people who are angry can all be acting differently in response to a circumstance even though they are angry. So make sure you do not blame someone's suicide upon the persons emotions or circumstances, as the cause is far more specific than that, and that is important to know if you are to address the cause of suicidal thoughts!!
So now..... What are the beliefs behind the cause of Suicide?
Did the person really want to die, or was the person's psyche looking for salvation? To the person's mind 'belief system', was it considered a way out, or a way to continue?
Most therapists will not know the correct answers to such essential questions, as they will not know what really needs to be adressed, and how! They will not know the real underlying cause is society's core concept, society's incorrect 'belief' in the existence of 'choice' !!!
That is a fact!! And if your therapists claims to be a facilitaitor rather than a teacher, definitely stand up and walk out, and go and find a teacher!!!
Gosh, harsh words hey! Though correct ones. A facilitator will not even attempt to teach you what you do not as yet know, and need to know, because the so-called facilitators incorrect belief in the existence of 'choice' contradicts the lessons you require to be taught in order to correct the incorrect beliefs at the core of the suicidal thoughts. Even the suicidal person being told of their need for a facilitator rather than a teacher, reinforces the psychological factors involved in the cause of the suididal thoughts!
Why and how?
The suicidal thoughts are the result of incorrect beliefs on what the purpose of life is, and which consequently create the incorrect belief to what a person's value is measured by, and as such people incorrectly believe their personal value is decreasing if ever life cirucstances do not enable them to live up to whatever the criteria is that they are measuring the success of their life and hence also their value by. But why does that make them suicidal?
Society's foundation philosophy, the "IF YOU ARE GOOD --YOU WILL GET/RECEIVE" , educates the mind to believe that if a person fails to live up to that personally believed criteria required to prove one's valuable worthiness (subject of self esteem), the person's necessities for development and survival shall be restricted, and death to be the result. All that stuff is going on in the mind's subconscious, simply because of the "If you are good- you'll get/receive" foundation philosophy which society lives by, and never addressed by the therapists!!
The suicidal thoughts display the person's belief in the desperate need to get oneself to some other existence in order to avoid personal value dangerousily decreasing any further if another circumstance takes place and displays the person's value and worthiness to have decreased further.
This whole affair is caused by society's incorrect core belief in the existence of 'power of choice' in the decisions we make, how we act!!!!!!!!!!!!!! As that is the casue of the "If you are good--you shall get/receive" foundation philosophy, and the reason why people have self esteem issues (concerns about personal value, and the desperate need to protect it!).
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To address the person's belief in the need to suicidal, the education required is one that explains and convinces the person of the truth that life is in fact a 'DEVELOPMENT ' process, and not a case of simply being able to choose right over wrong!
When understanding how and why life is actually a development process, the person gains the understanding of the reasons why personal value is never in jeopardy, and hence how and why a person's true value is never under threat, but rather they have always been performing their true valuable role, but society as yet had not explained to them precisely what that role is.
Life is correctly seen as a very interesting and educational journey, when you receive enough development to understand why, and also consequently learn what it is doing for you and you for others.
Yes, there is quite an education required to be provided to a person with suicidal thoughts, to address the underlying cause of suicide. And it is worth it!!
This is a process, an education, I have been providing for many years.
Hope to see you if you are in need of such assistance.
Greg Neville .